[TASK] Streamline recordlisting appearance

This patch aligns the appearance of the
record list with panels in the backend.

- Align checkboxes for multi record selection properly
- Streamline recordlist header actions
- Streamline first and last child edge padding
- Make typo3-backend-new-content-element-wizard-button
  component immitate button behaviour
- Make typo3-recordlist-record-download-button
  component immitate button behaviour
- Correct action spacing in page module

Resolves: #99865
Releases: main
Change-Id: I7cf439cf9aac1fabf54f76cb7f1cb496e4584620
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/77751


Reviewed-by: Andreas Fernandez <a.fernandez@scripting-base.de>
Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Tested-by: Andreas Fernandez <a.fernandez@scripting-base.de>
Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>