[BUGFIX] Allow context menu hide/unhide for all TCA-based fields

ContextMenuActions has the field "hidden" hard-coded which does not
work in e.g. backend user module, where the field is called "disabled".

The RecordProvider now evaluates this and adds this as a separate data
attribute which is evaluated in JavaScript now.

Resolves: #89939
Releases: master, 9.5
Change-Id: Ife22f229805d9bc06bd57b503f1131a815fb0691
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/62953


Tested-by: Daniel Goerz <daniel.goerz@posteo.de>
Tested-by: TYPO3com <noreply@typo3.com>
Tested-by: Susanne Moog <look@susi.dev>
Tested-by: Andreas Fernandez <a.fernandez@scripting-base.de>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Goerz <daniel.goerz@posteo.de>
Reviewed-by: Susanne Moog <look@susi.dev>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Fernandez <a.fernandez@scripting-base.de>