[TASK] Update `doctrine/dbal:^3.8.1`

Doctrine DBAL 3.8.x comes with further deprecations, but
also with the new `QueryBuilder::reset*()` methods as a
mitigation for the deprecated generic QueryBuilder methods
`resetQueryParams()` and `resetQueryParam()`.

See [1] for release notes and [2] for changes from current
minimum version towards 3.8.1.

Raising the minimum version ensures that extension authors
are able to create TYPO3 v12 and v13 compatible code. At least,
they can rely on it with the TYPO3 release containing this change
for non-Composer and Composer mode.

Used command(s):

> \
  composer req --no-update --no-install \
    -d typo3/sysext/redirects \
    "doctrine/dbal":"^3.8.1" ; \
  composer req --no-update --no-install \
    -d typo3/sysext/core \
    "doctrine/dbal":"^3.8.1" ; \
  composer req --no-update --no-install \
    -d typo3/sysext/install \
    "doctrine/dbal":"^3.8.1" ; \
  composer req -W \
    "doctrine/dbal":"^3.8.1"

[1] https://github.com/doctrine/dbal/releases/tag/3.8.1
[2] https://github.com/doctrine/dbal/compare/3.7.2...3.8.1

Resolves: #103031
Releases: 12.4
Change-Id: Ifb1b236c9c57a46a7cde7b753e813d6ae8cfbd01
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/82778


Reviewed-by: Oliver Klee <typo3-coding@oliverklee.de>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Tested-by: Stefan Bürk <stefan@buerk.tech>
Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Oliver Klee <typo3-coding@oliverklee.de>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Bürk <stefan@buerk.tech>