[BUGFIX] Fix ActionMenuItemViewHelper select-attribute

This commit fixes the setting of the select-attribute for menu items,
that have a different arguments-array given to them, but the same
controller => action combination as other menu items.

Resolves: #87182
Releases: master, 9.5
Change-Id: I7f82be3fd3af73959f671aad781d88e4b0362fc5
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/59176


Tested-by: TYPO3com <noreply@typo3.com>
Tested-by: Susanne Moog <look@susi.dev>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Susanne Moog <look@susi.dev>
Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>