[BUGFIX] Respect includeNotInMenu setting in menu cache hash

isSubmenu() produces different results depending on the
includeNotInMenu setting, Therefore we need to use separate
cache entries.

Resolves: #95043
Releases: master, 10.4
Change-Id: I34bdeb1a25606998e07ce2dc8aa366045dc3eefa
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/70828


Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Tina Westner <tina.westner@bgm-gmbh.de>
Tested-by: Peter Kraume <peter.kraume@gmx.de>
Tested-by: Wouter Wolters <typo3@wouterwolters.nl>
Tested-by: Georg Ringer <georg.ringer@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Tina Westner <tina.westner@bgm-gmbh.de>
Reviewed-by: Peter Kraume <peter.kraume@gmx.de>
Reviewed-by: Wouter Wolters <typo3@wouterwolters.nl>
Reviewed-by: Georg Ringer <georg.ringer@gmail.com>