[FEATURE] Improve status output of refindex update

With adding progressbar support while updating the reference index,
it is now possible to see which table is updated and how much progress
has already been achieved.

To be able to implement the progressbar in the frontend in a different
way, a progress listener interface is introduced which can be added separately.

At the same time, the FlashMessage logic is now put in the TYPO3 Backend
controller and the $cli_echo is now used to inject the progress listener interface

Resolves: #82062
Releases: master
Change-Id: Id11ba8a9f3e033eaea9f3aff5a7f5eb0602cfa02
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/53748


Tested-by: TYPO3com <noreply@typo3.com>
Tested-by: Georg Ringer <georg.ringer@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Anja Leichsenring <aleichsenring@ab-softlab.de>
Reviewed-by: Sebastian Fischer <typo3@evoweb.de>
Reviewed-by: Georg Ringer <georg.ringer@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Anja Leichsenring <aleichsenring@ab-softlab.de>