[TASK] Unify Labels for list view table header

Use only italic style for non sortable table cols.
Set 'Control' label to hidden in table header.

Resolves: #99701
Releases: main
Change-Id: Idad54b5c8860a9103171778e7925041f9a9fef1c
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/77566


Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>
Reviewed-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>
Tested-by: Stefan Bürk <stefan@buerk.tech>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Bürk <stefan@buerk.tech>