[TASK] Move column selector to EXT:backend

The column selector component is moved to
EXT:backend. This allows to use it in further
modules without adding cross dependencies to
EXT:recordlist.

Resolves: #94990
Releases: master
Change-Id: I97c6ce868e4accfe8906bffcd9b5c272066d5272
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/70750


Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Jochen <rothjochen@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>
Reviewed-by: Jochen <rothjochen@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>