[TASK] Use younger selenium/standalone-chrome

This brings a recent chrome version. Some tests
need minor adaptions to deal with changed exceptions
and behaviour.

Change-Id: I1644a90ee09c98721ad8246988709461248c66a4
Resolves: #93575
Releases: master
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/67964


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Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>
Tested-by: Richard Haeser <richard@richardhaeser.com>
Reviewed-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>
Reviewed-by: Richard Haeser <richard@richardhaeser.com>