[BUGFIX] Fix inSet implementation for sqlite

For SQLite inSet was implemented with a "like" substitution
which had various bugs. That implementation has
now been substituted with an "instr" implementation.

Resolves: #85131
Releases: master
Change-Id: Id4e8f7132800c991e49d4033d2b01f474b6aae3b
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/57107


Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>
Tested-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>
Tested-by: TYPO3com <no-reply@typo3.com>