[TASK] Switch to custom build docker-dind image

Due a regression since GitLab runner 15.1,we cannot
use the official docker dind image to raise runner
version to keep up with the TYPO3 gitlab instance.

Because of other issues, using a custom docker dind
image with changed expose port for the healthcheck
to work around that issue is needed.

See: https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-runner/-/issues/29130

After Gitlab has released a proper fix for this,
this should be reverted and the official docker
dind image used again.

Resolves: #100086
Releases: main, 12.1, 11.5, 10.4
Change-Id: I4b433ba7f3a42c718b4d436cf42cdf619b9094ca
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/77965


Tested-by: Stefan Bürk <stefan@buerk.tech>
Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Bürk <stefan@buerk.tech>