[TASK] Adjust attributes of ColumnSelectorButton

This replaces usage of native attributes for
custom properties to avoid unintended side
effects.

Resolves: #100474
Releases: main
Change-Id: I3fdf9ae8a8b003f09c464af1b5e2d2355a50f38c
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/78482


Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>
Tested-by: Jochen <rothjochen@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Jochen <rothjochen@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>
Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>