[BUGFIX] Show correct creation and modification time in filelist

The creation and modification time of files
is now displayed correctly again, using the
file info instead of the file metadata values.
Especially when sorting by those fields, this
previously led to discrepancies since the driver
(performing the sorting) always uses the file
info. See related patch:
https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/74158

Additionally, non-admins are now also able
to select the creation and modification time
"fields" in the column selector.

Resolves: #97290
Releases: main, 11.5
Change-Id: Ie9b4b7dccce68efeaac20998af4eeca204710f3f
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/74139


Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>
Reviewed-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>