[TASK] Check valid database name specific for DBMS

With this change the check for a valid database name will be done
specific for each DBMS.

Resolves: #85739
Releases: master
Change-Id: Ia006a31fb4686fc45ac2ab3862f3a530ed5eef58
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/63053


Tested-by: TYPO3com <noreply@typo3.com>
Tested-by: Susanne Moog <look@susi.dev>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Susanne Moog <look@susi.dev>
Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>