[BUGFIX] Allow linking to records that are set to All Languages

This change now checks for a records' sys_language_uid field
before doing overlays, and is only doing overlays when
the incoming record has a "sys_language_uid" -1 and was properly
overlaid.

Resolves: #100931
Resolves: #101229
Releases: main, 12.4
Change-Id: I73acaf02de950312d1728936a92b6603ff62eb77
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/79775


Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>