[TASK] Cleanup UpgradeWizardService

To simplify working with the UpgradeWizardService,
the patch cleans up the following:

* Extract database related tasks into an own service
* Fetch UpgradeWizardService via container

Resolves: #99570
Releases: main
Change-Id: Ia18aa19cea8743890a4e85629b7e720ee73a7220
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/77416


Reviewed-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>
Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Benjamin Franzke <bfr@qbus.de>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Benjamin Franzke <bfr@qbus.de>
Tested-by: Oliver Bartsch <bo@cedev.de>