[TASK] Streamline icons (order/style) in InlineRecordContainer

In order to be consistent, change the button order and styling
(according to the list module) in the InlineRecordContainer.

Resolves: #78174
Releases: master, 8.7
Change-Id: I2f4498f1e822785c2b26dab697ec4fe26aae5ef0
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/50104


Reviewed-by: Jan Helke <typo3@helke.de>
Tested-by: Jan Helke <typo3@helke.de>
Tested-by: TYPO3com <no-reply@typo3.com>
Tested-by: Riccardo De Contardi <erredeco@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>
Tested-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>