[BUGFIX] Avoid redundant SQL queries in ReferenceIndex

Change methods inside ReferenceIndex to allow them to receive an
existing record as array rather than a UID to avoid each method loading
it from the database again to read record or record fields.

For a copy operation on 25 pages with ~100 content elements total there
are 1,500 SQL queries less leading to a ~40% time reduction and
~10% memory reduction.

Change-Id: I0ed05478dfbc0535efc8d1d29b6a8298d475fb6b
Releases: master, 8.7
Resolves: #78634
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/50566


Reviewed-by: Markus Klein <markus.klein@typo3.org>
Tested-by: Markus Klein <markus.klein@typo3.org>
Tested-by: TYPO3com <no-reply@typo3.com>
Reviewed-by: Kasper Ligaard <kasperligaard+typo3.org@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Kasper Ligaard <kasperligaard+typo3.org@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Jigal van Hemert <jigal.van.hemert@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>