[BUGFIX] Add `ESCAPE` keyword for `like()` and `notLike() expressions

Values for `like` expressions should be escaping the
corresponding like wildcards ($ and _). TYPO3 core
provides a `escapeLikeWildcards()` in `QueryBuilder`
and on the `Connection`. Under the hood, the php
`addcslashes()` method is used to escape wildcards
in the value before appending/prepending wildcards.

It has been assumed, that `\` as escape character
is always the default character throughout all
database server vendors and versions - which makes
`addcslashes()` the one-shot to use.

It has been recently discovered, that if values in
the database contains one of these wildcards, for
example the underscore `_` and a like expression
is built using the escape method, the row cannot
be matched in all databases.

This relates to the fact, that the generated like
expressions do not contains the `ESCAPE` keyword
to define which escape character has been used.

`doctrine/dbal` has added a corresponding argument
to the doctrine/dbal query ExpressionBuilder like()
and notLike() method, so this can be set.

TYPO3 uses a custom ExpressionBuilder, not extending
the doctrine ExpressionBuilder (which will change
with upcoming doctrine/dbal v4).

This change always adds the `ESCAPE` keyword to
like and not like expressions with the hardcoded
`\` escape character - except for PostgresSQL.
PostgresSQL doesn't like it when ILIKE/NOT ILIKE
is used, which the ExpressionBuilder does to mimic
case insensitive LIKE/NOT LIKE similar to MySql.

This can be made configurable in a dedicated patch
and must be done for upgrading to doctrine/dbal 4.x
anyway.

Resolves: #100874
Releases: main, 12.4, 11.5
Change-Id: Id7eb891ef52e8c6988a605eaadd0afcbcf5176bb
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/79027


Tested-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>
Reviewed-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>
Tested-by: Stefan Bürk <stefan@buerk.tech>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Bürk <stefan@buerk.tech>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Froemken <froemken@gmail.com>
Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Stefan Froemken <froemken@gmail.com>