[BUGFIX] Install tool database row updater works with mssql

SqlServer can not handle a transaction for a table, if the
same table is queried currently. The install tool database
row updater does this. Solution is to skip the transaction
on this platform. Additionally, an update query is fixed
to hint for proper field types.

Resolves: #92832
Releases: master, 10.4
Change-Id: I5fc76705088a727dc1ff41410d6e2cd02b3d9655
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/66622


Tested-by: TYPO3com <noreply@typo3.com>
Tested-by: Anja Leichsenring <aleichsenring@ab-softlab.de>
Tested-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Andreas Fernandez <a.fernandez@scripting-base.de>
Reviewed-by: Anja Leichsenring <aleichsenring@ab-softlab.de>
Reviewed-by: Benni Mack <benni@typo3.org>