[BUGFIX] Recognize removed columns on PostgreSQL

This patch ensures columns of tables which have been removed from
ext_tables.sql definitions are recognized on PostgreSQL so they are
renamed by adding a "zzz_deleted_" prefix.

It also enables the formerly excluded according test for SQLite and
MSSQL which work without necessary changes.

Resolves: #93491
Releases: master, 10.4
Change-Id: Ia892c69a506372f71d066fd707b5c8a27718d2b1
Reviewed-on: https://review.typo3.org/c/Packages/TYPO3.CMS/+/67772


Tested-by: TYPO3com <noreply@typo3.com>
Tested-by: core-ci <typo3@b13.com>
Tested-by: Markus Klein <markus.klein@typo3.org>
Tested-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>
Reviewed-by: Markus Klein <markus.klein@typo3.org>
Reviewed-by: Christian Kuhn <lolli@schwarzbu.ch>